In His Own Words
About him
You may be someone who likes someone older for whatever reason, someone who has the understanding, breadth and inner resourcefulness of those who have seen it all before. On top of that generic profile I offer drive and aliveness, as I have been motivated throughout my life by dynamism and curiosity - much misunderstood - a typical actor even if I came to it late. I have my own way of doing things, but I adapt well to others as and when they adapt to me: respect has been a long time in the learning and it is now securely rooted in me, such that my greatest joy now is to sense and to know other people.
About his ideal match
If I were to meet someone charming, stable and loving, ideally a good deal younger than myself and having within him the wisdom that goes with a feeling of comfort in the presence of an older person, and if the chemistry were right, I would be in seventh heaven. I believe I would like a very receiving lover now, but there are so many desirable 'ideal' criteria I could focus on if I wanted to; I have been genuinely in love before - and for someone who who ideally likes smooth, feminine lovers, two of my greatest loves have been as hairy as sheeps!! So my 'ideal' is rubbish and fails in the face of the reality of love as it happens, which is the next adventure - hopefully the last - that I am looking for.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
City of London, London, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
77 | |
Star sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
5' 9" (175cm) | |
Body type: |
Stocky | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Grey | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Maybe | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Most days | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
Ask me later | |
Other languages: |
French; German; Italian | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
18 - 40 | ||
Star sign: |
Pisces | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing; Financial services; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Political / Government; Self-employed; Student; Teaching / Education / Training; Science / Engineering / Research; Public sector; Advertising / PR; Media | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Intelligence: |
Highbrow |
Party behaviour: |
A wallflower |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Easygoing; Funny; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Philosophical; Realistic; Shy; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
Shorts & a T-shirt |
Favourite colour: |
Red |
Hair style: |
It's a distant memory |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Opera; Scottish |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines regularly |
Books: |
History; Non-fiction; Science / Technology |
TV habits: |
I watch television every day |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; News |
Movie frequency: |
Several times a week |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Independent; War |
Interests: |
Collecting stamps, coins, etc.; Cooking; Internet; Music; Politics; Reading; Singing; The arts |
Performing Arts: |
Classical theatre; Contemporary dance; Contemporary theatre; Opera; Physical theatre |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Doesn't matter; French; German; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
What's work? |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Cat(s); Fish |
Turn-ons: |
Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Power; Sarcasm; Wealth |
Work aspirations: |
Fire the boss |
Religious attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream home: |
Tent in the woods |
Politics: |
Socialist |
Feelings about using LoveArts.com: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Very |
