In Her Own Words
About her
*Added a few days into creating my profile*
I've received quite a few messages but only one is from a man under 60 (my stated upper limit). In reality, in recent years I've only had relationships with men in their 40s so it's not looking good on here. Two of my correspondents have even been in their 80s. Am I on the wrong site?! So, come on all you youngsters.
Here's the rest of the profile:
I'm a professional classical pianist and piano teacher. I live with my two sons, aged 16 and 18, in Streatham, South London.
I am vivacious, intelligent, gregarious and creative. I love people and all the buzz of friendships and relationships of all kinds. There's a bit of the rebel in me and I will always challenge the status quo. I will challenge you if ever we meet.
I'm a size 10, 5'8" and fit, due to my healthy diet and regular running, swimming, cycling and yoga.
Attending cultural events, particularly classical concerts, theatre and galleries, is a crucial part of my life. You don't need to be expert in these areas but you do need to be curious and open-minded about culture and the arts. A shared love of nature and the countryside (I'm a National Trust member and I adore the sea), and an interest in good/interesting/varied food are important parts of life to be shared in any relationship for me.
Previous spells of internet dating have introduced me to some lovely men and I've had deep relationships and made friends. Right now, because of particular challenges in parenting, I'm not able to sustain a traditional "serious" relationship. I am looking for warmth and fun, which might possibly develop over time to a fuller companionship.
About her ideal match
Someone intelligent, articulate and in good physical shape. I know everyone says that but my bar is quite high on all three counts. See above about my recent dating history. The last few boyfriends have all been in their 40s. I'd rather be single than date someone dull or fat. Sorry! If you're into the arts, and presumably you are, if you're on this site, it will give us a chance of building something.
You'd be liberal, left-leaning and would have good manners. Not so much the door-opening kind, but more the ability to apologise and consideration for the needs of those around you.
You'd have to be open minded. Because of my freelance career and home situation, I won't be available as regularly as some people. When I am with a lover though, I give full attention to him and find intimacy the most wonderful way to keep sane and remind myself who I am.
Best if you're not set on a "traditional" or "serious" relationship. I'd love it if such a thing were to evolve for me, but "casual" may we'll be the best thing for now.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Lambeth (Streatham Hill/West Norwood), London, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
61 | |
Star sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
5' 8" (173cm) | |
Body type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
Ask me later | |
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French; German | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Bedfordshire; Berkshire; Cambridgeshire; East Sussex; Essex; Hampshire; Hertfordshire; Kent; London - Inner; London - Outer; Surrey; West Sussex (England, United Kingdom) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
35 - 60 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 8" (172cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
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