In His Own Words
About him
I love theatre, both straight and musicals. I enjoy modern board games (socialising with structure - and competition!), cooking (and eating) well, walking my springer spaniel, and lately Tai Chi.
I like to describe myself (only half in jest) as a renaissance geek. Not art or technology, but art and technology.
And also cake.
I live in a thatched cottage without (currently) any central heating -- but with a home automation network. I like Shakespeare and Ted Lasso. I'd much rather watch The Princess Bride than The Godfather (although in fairness I'd much rather watch The Princess Bride than almost anything else). I'm concerned about the environment -- but I drive into London when I'm seeing a show as it makes the trip home much easier. I'm a keen cook -- but sometimes I just want instant ramen. I am not averse to taking centre stage -- but I also need a certain amount of time to recharge my social batteries. I can come across as opinionated -- but I try to be open to changing my opinions.
So I believe in nuance, and curiosity, and that many things are more of a spectrum than black and white. That said, I skew politically left, and think that anyone these days that votes Tory is at least a bit evil. And I eat, and very much enjoy, meat (ideally organic and raised to good welfare standards, but still), so anyone staunchly vegetarian is going to reasonably consider me a bit evil.
About his ideal match
Years ago I had a dating profile which read "Benedick seeks Beatrice". And I'd still like to be with someone who can sparkle, and challenge me (god knows I can come across as sorely in need of challenging sometimes), but my ideal relationship would have a core of loving care -- as well as the exciting friction and laughter.
What His Friends Say
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Petersfield, Hampshire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
53 | |
Star sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
5' 9" (175cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Hazel | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the United Kingdom | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
40 - 56 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 5' 9" (176cm) | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; It's Complicated | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Kosher; Halaal | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
University / College student; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Generous; Intelligent; Outspoken; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Body hair: |
Light |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines regularly |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Honesty: |
Very |