In Her Own Words
About her
I'm lucky enough to work professionally as a musician, usually on more leftfield projects. My friends tell me I'm funny, clever, pretty, kind, talented and creative (I've got nice friends!) and I'm lucky to have a job that brings me loads of satisfaction and opportunities to hang out with interesting people though it's usually other creative women! Loudon Wainwright wrote a song about my predicament!
To relax, I love walking in beautiful places like parks and gardens and I'm having a go at creating my own bit of heaven in my back yard and growing some things we can eat as I really like food and cooking and so does my little boy. I grew up by the sea and love to get down to the coast when I can for a walk and a swim. I even managed to get to Iceland last summer and would love to go again. Northern lights anyone?
I am a single mum to a gorgeous, rambunctious little boy. I'm on really good terms with his dad and most of my exes so he has lots of good male role models. My son is my world and I've never been more creative than since having him, especially during lockdown. Now that things are opening up, I'm keen to meet nice, creative single dads. We can have a big jam or something!
About her ideal match
Top of the list is self-irony. I can't be tiptoeing around a fragile, male ego again! So, someone who can really laugh at themselves and how ridiculous life can be. Passion and dedication about what they do, their friends and family and the things that matter can definitely co-exist with humility and humour and I greedily want all of those things in a partner as it's kind of where I am.
I'd like to meet someone I can really converse with and they'd have to be left-leaning. It's never going to be '**** a Tory week' round my house!
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Southwark (London), London, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
45 | |
Star sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
5' 3" (160cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want children: |
Maybe | |
Daily diet: |
Vegetarian | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
Middle Eastern | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Other | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 10 miles of postcode district SE23 (London) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
35 - 49 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 4" (162cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; It's Complicated | ||
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
Yes; Maybe | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing; Financial services; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Political / Government; Self-employed; Teaching / Education / Training; Science / Engineering / Research; Public sector; Advertising / PR; Media; Consultancy / Design; IT / Telecoms | ||
Income: |
Solvent | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Spiritual, but not religious; Other |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Ambitious; Funny; Generous; Intelligent; Loving; Outspoken; Philosophical; Sensible; Thoughtful |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Forgiveness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Patience |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite clothing: |
Something my (grand)mother made me. |
Hair style: |
Long |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Disabilities: |
I have none; Other |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Reading: |
I read newspapers regularly; I read books occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
Fiction; Non-fiction |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Sci-Fi |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Music; Politics; Reading; Singing; The arts |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Dance; Swimming; Walking |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Gardening |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I'm an only child |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in the middle of a divorce |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream home: |
In the city |
Politics: |
Labour |
Honesty: |
Very |