In His Own Words
About him
I guess it's all subjective but my friends have described me as funny, intelligent, passionate, creative and moody. I pride myself on genuine honesty and kindness and hate to see people hurt. There is anger in me of which I have learnt to use productively and is no longer destructive, in fact , I seem to be experiencing a sort of mid-life liberation as opposed to crisis and can't remember feeling more alive. I regard the arts as fundamental (Literature and Music particularly) but reject exclusion and pretense. A long rural or coastal walk leading to an isolated pub serving good food is idyllic to me although I grew up in South-east London so I can get hip if need be. As for an outlook on life I have found waste, of any kind, the thing to be most avoided.
About his ideal match
Naturally feminine and attractive. A woman whose presence seems to outreach her skin. Someone whose absence renders the beauty of sunset redundant and daybreak without promise.
What His Friends Say
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Canterbury, Kent, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
55 | |
Star sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
6' 1" (185cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Grey | |
Eye colour: |
Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Maybe | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Further education | |
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
Ask me later | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
Any | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Above Average | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Ambitious; Confident; Funny; Generous; Intelligent; Moody; Outspoken; Realistic; Thoughtful |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Folk; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; New Age; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Reggae; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Religious; Travel |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Dramas; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Never |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Independent; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Music; Reading; The arts; Writing books |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Boxing; Camping; Cycling; Football (Soccer); Hiking; Pool; Snorkeling; Swimming; Walking; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Chinese; French; Greek; Indian; Italian; Seafood; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Family size: |
I'm an only child |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using LoveArts.com: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Very |
