In Her Own Words
About her
I prefer porch sitting with cold watermelon, great tunes (or live frog songs in the middle of nowhere), great company, and 420 to bars or going out, but when the great world calls, I sometimes answer :). Last stops were - Apr. 8 total eclipse in the Uwharries making a site-specific installation, then Andalucia in southern Spain. I've been vegetarian my entire adult life but not obnoxious about it, for ethical reasons. I am out hiking or biking in the forest almost daily to fill my soul. I'm a maker of things and ideas, and I have been surrounded by artists always - it was my community until I moved away to help my parents. I will move again someday to find a community of free thinkers. I love to learn about science - plants and animals especially, but not exclusively. Last, I hope to remain open to the magic of the unexpected until my dying breath!!
I'm child-free by choice - and we cat ladies rock :)
The best of me:
-bright energy, smiles, and laughs out loud
-kindness, compassion, honesty, open communication
-visual art professor = very creative
-somewhat-age-appropriate-whooping it up (former daredevil)
-feisty & fire-y
-current mountain biking queen of my solitary queendom, healthy lifestyle - real food, mindfulness, yoga, etc
-whip-smart, inquisitive, thirsty for learning, reader of real books, writing aficionado
-unconventional thinker, great listener
-independent, world traveled, studied 4 languages
-tender-hearted, not afraid to be vulnerable, emotionally intelligent, empath
-amateur naturalist, tree hugger, companion to 3 tiny dogs
-seeker of meaning & spiritual evolution
About her ideal match
Your money and status don't impress me but your emotional availability, wide open heart, powerful intellect, fabulous creative spirit, and zest for living will! Not into: the pursuit of wealth, beige-on-beige suburbs, clearcutting forests, toxic masculinity/patriarchy, and confederate flag-waving like I see around me now, sigh. I hope you are into self-care, physical movement, the outdoors, and have compassion for animals and humans. Do you read real books? That's a big bonus for an obsessive bibliophile like me. More bonus points for crawling around the woods looking for bower bird nests in New Zealand: just sayin'. Ya gotta keep up :).
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About her
Country of origin: |
United States | |
Location: |
Charlotte (Albemarle), North Carolina | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
58 | |
Star sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
5' 5" (165cm) | |
Body type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Blue-Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Vegetarian | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Teaching / Education / Training | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French; Russian; Spanish | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Charlotte (North Carolina) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
45 - 63 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 8" (172cm) - 6' 5" (196cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
University / College student; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing; Retired; Self-employed; Student; Teaching / Education / Training; Other; Agriculture; Consultancy / Design | ||
Income: |
Starving artist; Solvent; Enough; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; Native American; Pacific Islander; White/Caucasian; Mixed; Black/Caribbean descent | ||
Home language: |
English; Afrikaans; Albanian/Kosovan; Croatian; Danish; Finnish; French; Gaelic / Irish; German; Greek; Italian; Korean; Norwegian; Portuguese; Romanian; Russian; Serbian; Spanish; Swedish; Welsh; Other | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Other |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Rocket Scientist |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Daring; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Melancholy; Moody; Outgoing; Outspoken; Philosophical; Realistic; Sarcastic; Thoughtful; Trustworthy; Wild |
Valued qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Outdoorsy (I'm usually dressed for the bush) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite colour: |
Green |
Hair style: |
Long; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Body art: |
Pierced ears; More piercings; A tattoo or two |
Date activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Folk; Instrumental; Jazz; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; Sci-Fi |
Movie frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Auto repair; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Music; Painting; Photography; Pottery; Reading; Sculpting; Sewing; Singing; The arts; Voluntary work; Woodwork; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Performing Arts: |
Ballet; Circus; Comedy; Contemporary dance; Contemporary theatre; Ethnic / National dance; Fringe; Physical theatre; Site-specific performance |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Archery; Athletics; Birdwatching; Canoeing; Cycling; Dance; Fencing; Hiking; Martial arts; Mountain biking; Pool; Rock climbing; Rowing; Shooting; Snorkeling; Stand Up Paddleboarding; Surf skiing/kayaking; Swimming; Walking; Water skiing; Weight training; White water rafting; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Greek; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I always cook at home |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Other |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
What's work? |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Power |
Work aspirations: |
Fire the boss |
Religious attendance: |
I'm non-practising |
Dream home: |
Other |
Politics: |
Green |
Retirement plans: |
Pursuing a sport or hobby |
Feelings about using LoveArts.com: |
Curious; Jaded |
Honesty: |
Extremely |









