In His Own Words
About him
You'll find me as an artist, a perpetual student, a dedicated teacher, a caring friend, a musician, an engineering mind, and a mediator who simplifies life's complexities. I'm also known for my sage-like qualities, my attentive listening, and my knack for fostering harmony.
Creativity is the driving force behind my journey. I thrive on contribution and growth. My core values revolve around simplicity, integrity, honesty, and self-reliance. Optimism tempered with pragmatism and resilience.
As an INFJ (Advocate), I approach life with thoughtfulness and imagination. My inner vision and deeply held personal values guide my steps. 4-5 w 9 Enneagram, Individualist, Investigator, and Peacemaker – an artist with sensitivity, a scholar with curiosity, and a mediator who seeks harmony.
My skill set encompasses emotional intelligence, simplifying complex issues, and using knowledge and technology to create simple solutions to complex challenges.
One of my ongoing challenges is finding individuals who share my values and goals, as a result of my specific interests and introspective nature. It’s an ongoing practice to balance my creative path and the need for stability in my life.
I'm a storyteller, a builder, a relentless learner, and a connoisseur of psychology and culture. Mindfulness is my rock. I relish exploring the outdoors and sharing enriching experiences.
I value the embodied experience deeply. I love and value the body, in all its depth, pleasure and sensuality. I have a very high-sex drive and actively maintain a sexual practice. I most crave a relationship where connection, sensuality and sexuality emerges from the wholeness of each partner.
In dating, my idea of a perfect time involves savoring serene moments, punctuated by collaboration, riveting stories, laughter, healing, learning, movement, and the beauty of nature. If you're on a journey of growth and creativity and seeking a companion to build alongside with, I'm here to connect and explore with you. Say hello!
About his ideal match
You're a down-to-earth 20-something woman, naturally curious and grounded. Nature is your sanctuary, offering stability and calm in your busy life. Your creative streak adds a practical and hands-on dimension to your personality.
You're a dependable listener, having weathered life's challenges with resilience. You embrace a self-reliant approach and possess emotional intelligence. Keeping an active lifestyle, you stay fit and welcome life's adventures with enthusiasm.
You take feedback well. You strive for honesty, integrity and trust in your relationships. You nurture those around you, while taking care not to over-extend yourself and place yourself in unhealthy situations.
You’re smart, curious and a life-long learner. You are a dreamer and do-er who will never settle, always striving for a high vision or ideal, even if getting there looks like play, adventure or peace and calm.
Your long-term goals include building a close-knit community, raising a family, and making a positive impact on the world. You find joy in crafting and nurturing beautiful things.
As a bonus, perhaps you're wonderful with kids, have a knack for community-building, a green thumb for plants, and a genuine interest in psychology.
Your grounded and genuine nature is something special, and I'd love to get to know you better.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United States | |
Location: |
Cary, North Carolina | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
32 | |
Star sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
5' 10" (178cm) | |
Body type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Ask me later | |
Eye colour: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Yes | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Never | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
Ask me later | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Ask me later |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in North Carolina | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
18 - 35 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Athletic; Curvaceous; Full figured | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have children: |
No | ||
Want children: |
Yes | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing; Self-employed; Student; Teaching / Education / Training; Consultancy / Design; Home maker | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A wallflower |
Personality traits: |
Ambitious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Philosophical; Quiet; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Devotion; Honesty; Humour |
Fashion sense: |
Outdoorsy (I'm usually dressed for the bush) |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Instrumental; Jazz; New Age; Reggae |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Business; Fantasy; Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Religious; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology; Self-help |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Sports: |
Archery; Athletics; Camping; Chess; Running; Skateboarding; Snowboarding; Surfing; Weight training; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Gluten-free; Lactose-free; Sugar-free |
Pace of Life: |
Chilled |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Honesty: |
Quite |