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Tofuton

70 – Atlantic City, New Jersey, United States

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Online: Sunday

Modified: 20 March 2020

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About him

Country of origin:
United States
Location:
Atlantic City, New Jersey, United States
Gender:
Male
Age:
70
Star sign:
Virgo
Height:
6' 0" (183cm)
Body type:
Athletic
Looks:
Above Average
Hair colour:
Light Brown
Eye colour:
Blue
Relationship Status:
Single
Looking for:
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage
Have children:
No
Want children:
Ask me later
Daily diet:
Eat healthily
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
Postgraduate
Occupation:
Ask me later
Income:
Comfortable
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
None
Religion:
Ask me later

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
United States
Location:
Anywhere in the United States
Gender:
Female
Age range:
55 - 70
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 4" (162cm) - 6' 2" (189cm)
Body type:
Slim; Athletic
Looks:
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Non-negotiable
Relationship Status:
Single; Divorced; Widowed
Have children:
Any
Want children:
Any
Daily diet:
Any
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
Postgraduate
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Other
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About him

I am a lover of music ranging from Roxy Music to Chopin. I never tire of his nocturnes. I also like pop standards from Clarence the Frogman's Henry's, "You Always Hurt the One You Love" from 1961, or Skeeter Davis's, "I Can't Stay Mad At You" from 1963. So many good songs from so many decades. I'm quite liberal and I try to listen to both my reason and emotions. I enjoy foreign films and perspectives but I know we Americans have no monopoly on ignorance, although it's so clear we're developmentally delayed especially since November, 4, 2016!!!!!. I have my opinions, but I try not to be opinionated. As you know, that is easier said than done! I enjoy humor and kindness and try to learn from challenges. I'm loyal to my friends but I believe that a person who is nice to you and rude to the waiter is probably not a nice person-I read this in a Dave Barry column. I believe all of us have many contradictions especially moi. For instance, I know that power and money are really traps, but I do believe an ethically informed value system can help in living more wisely however one defines this. I view myself as fairly independent and a person who asks questions without insisting on "answers", but I guess that's why operas, the arts and the humanities exist.----
Recently, I found "Beautiful Day in the Neighborhood" to be so emotionally intelligent. Such an honest and moving portrayal of a wounded healer (Mr. Rogers) & his inquisitor journalist interviewer (Mr. Lloyd Vogel) who learned so much by Mr. Roger's example, and natural compassion for others. More recently, I found "Portrait of a Lady on Fire" to be so achingly beautiful and emotionally intelligent.

About his ideal match

I'm looking to meet an authentic woman who places a value on the inner life while acknowledging how appearances can be important, but not overly so. A partner who values & lives paradox, but is also grounded in concrete realities like budgets, and the vicissitudes of life , yet is also open to the wonders & humor so often found side by side with the serious concerns of this journey. A partner who has more questions than answers, but knows her emotional/intellectual & developmental grounds. Of course, I'm also of that makeup so the hope is to find a kindred spirit in this bardo.

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More about him

Personality
Sense of humour:
Witty
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party behaviour:
An impartial observer
Personality traits:
Faithful; Funny; Independent; Intelligent; Philosophical; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy
Valued qualities:
Chemistry; Compassion; Friendliness; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness
Fashion sense:
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans)
Favourite clothing:
Shorts & a T-shirt
Favourite colour:
Blue
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Short
Eyesight:
I wear glasses
Facial hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Body hair:
Light
Disabilities:
I have none
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A movie; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum
Music preferences:
Classical; Rock
Reading:
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly; I read magazines occasionally
Books:
(Auto)biographies; History; Non-fiction
TV habits:
I don't have a television
Movie frequency:
Once or twice a month
Movie preferences:
Documentary; Independent; Romance
Interests:
Music; The arts
Sport involvement:
Not involved at all
Food
Food:
Indian; Japanese
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a month
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Manageable
Time at work:
I'm retired
Pastimes of choice:
Visiting a museum or gallery
Time online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Family contact:
I rarely see them
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
For the right person, to the moon!
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Pets (Like):
Cat(s); Dog(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping
Turn-offs:
Sarcasm
The deep stuff
Religious attendance:
I'm non-practising
Dream home:
In the country
Politics:
Liberal
Retirement plans:
Living in the country
Honesty:
Extremely