In Her Own Words
About her
Postmodern love is superficial, fast, intense and narcissist. In an age based on selfishness and individual egocentrism, the folly of falling in love is common and evanescent. Love, more than being a reality is an emotional utopia of a world hungry for intense and strong emotions.
About her ideal match
In such environments the online-self appears to be far more authentic, genuine and compassionate than the real public-self, which appears more likely to be dominated by fear of others, defensiveness, and deceit. In cyber-writing, the body is often referred to as the 'meat', the dead flesh that surrounds the active mind, which constitutes the 'authentic self'. In this view then, the body - or rather, its absence - enables emotions to evolve from a more authentic self, and to flow toward more worthy objects, namely the disembodied true self of another.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Southwark, London, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
33 | |
Star sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
5' 9" (175cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Very Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Changes Often | |
Eye colour: |
Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Yes | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Ask me later | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing | |
Income: |
Wealthy | |
Ethnicity: |
Other | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Other |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district SE15 (London) | ||
Gender: |
Female; Male | ||
Age range: |
20 - 50 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Obscure |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Ambitious; Confident; Easygoing; Funny; Intelligent |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
Anything, as long as it's black |
Hair style: |
Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
Going to the theatre |