About him
Country of origin: |
United States | |
Location: |
Fresno, California, United States | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
40 | |
Star sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
5' 10" (178cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want children: |
Maybe | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Never | |
Education: |
University / College student | |
Occupation: |
Media | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
Ask me later | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Christian / Other |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Clovis; Fresno; Madera (California, United States) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
18 - 36 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
In His Own Words
About him
Why should people get to know me? I've been asking myself this question for years and I have yet to come up with an answer which will encourage people to get to know me.
However, I will say that I am one of the allegedly rare good guys. I am the dependable, reliable (yes there is a difference between the two words), caring, open-minded, loving, considerate, men who will go out of their way to help a friend. I am the man who stands up for the rights of others, no matter who it is be them different gendered, a different skin color, different orientation, differently-abled, etc.
I have my quirks, I wear my heart on my sleeve and like the song says, I have the habit of taking off my shirt (as if the headline didn't give that fact away). I am a lover and a fighter, albeit my choice of weapon is written and spoken word. I am also a lover of the arts; I am a writer, actor, photographer, visual story teller, graphic designer, journalist, producer, marketing extraordinaire, who dances badly and can only sing in choir settings. But I love the arts in all form from music to dance, from painting and sculpting to construction and art modeling, from the stage to the costuming, from cooking to eating, from etc to etc; I love it all. Is it any wonder why as a straight male I find it hard to attract straight/bi women as anything other than friends? lol
I am also, and most importantly, a single father of two amazing children. They are my light, my joy, my reason for being. How many people can say that they accomplished their childhood dream? Well, I can as even at the age of two, I knew that what I wanted most in life was to be a father. Now my top wish is to provide them with a family.
About his ideal match
My ideal woman... that's a load. I don't want some "idealized woman." I want a real woman. A woman who thinks, a woman who arts (yes I just used arts as a verb, get used to it), a woman who challenges me to be more than I am but there to catch me if I fail (and who expects me to do the same for her). Open minded, loving, nurturing, kick ass, sexy, sweet... You get the idea.
When it comes to the typical earmarked physical attributes that attract me to a woman (which note, are NOT A NEED BE as many women I am attracted to do not fit in this mold including some ex's), I tend to be drawn by the more mousy librarian types, usually Hispanic/Native American or Middle Eastern. Picture the Anne Hathaway, Masiela Lusha, Paulie (Rojas) Redding look and add glasses. This of course is in no way a deal breaker as I like women of many different shapes and sizes, this just happens to be the "zero" point on the spectrum.
I need a woman who is just as comfortable in the outdoors as I am, and aside from work schedule and child care issues is ready to run out for a camping trip at the drop of a hat, or be ready to go out for an elegant (as elegant as Fresno can get anyway) not on the town in just as short of notice. And being comfortable with and around nudism is a plus too, lol.
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More about him
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Highbrow |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An exhibitionist |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Cautious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Mild; Outspoken; Philosophical; Realistic; Sensible; Shy; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Kindness; Mercy; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Minimal (Clothes are strictly optional) |
Favourite clothing: |
I'm most comfortable naked |
Favourite colour: |
Blue |
Hair style: |
Medium; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial hair: |
I have a goatee |
Body hair: |
Smooth |
Disabilities: |
Other |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A picnic in a park; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Folk; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Muzak; New Age; Opera; Pop / Top 40; Punk; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally; I read newspapers occasionally; I read magazines occasionally |
Books: |
Fiction; History; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology |
TV programmes: |
Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Game shows; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi; Talk shows; Variety shows |
Movie frequency: |
I wait for movies to come out on DVD or online. |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Adult; Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Acting; Board games; Business news; Card games; Collecting stamps, coins, etc.; Computer & video games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Internet; Investing; Meditation; Music; Painting; Photography; Politics; Pottery; Reading; Sculpting; Sewing; Shopping; Singing; The arts; Voluntary work; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Performing Arts: |
Ballet; Burlesque; Cabaret; Circus; Classical theatre; Comedy; Contemporary dance; Contemporary theatre; Ethnic / National dance; Fringe; Light entertainment; Musical theatre; Opera; Physical theatre; Site-specific performance; Student productions |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Camping; Chess; Cycling; Dance; Fencing; Gymnastics; Hiking; Ice Skating; Martial arts; Rock climbing; Swimming; Walking; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Fast food; Fine Dining; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none; Other |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Other; Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Dream home: |
Other |
Feelings about using LoveArts.com: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Embarrassed; Optimistic; Excited |
