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BoaterBenj

66 – Oxford (Yarnton, Oxfordshire), Oxfordshire, England

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Online: 27 February 2024

Modified: 31 December 2023

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In His Own Words

About him

Hello there! Hailing from the Highlands of Scotland, I have lived a somewhat bohemian lifestyle on a narrowboat on the canal here in Oxford for 29 years. But that has finally come to an end, and I have bought a small flat in a village just north of the city. I am an actor/entertainer/performer, having trod the boards in many, many different genres, for over 30 years; and became a published author when my black comedy thriller was released in 2017. In addition I am a gardener, tree surgeon, and painter/decorator.
"Quirky" is one of the adjectives often applied to me, and one I am comfortable with; I am lively, outgoing, would like to think I am fairly humorous, and definitely an outdoor type. Nights at the cinema and theatre are obviously attractive to me as well, however. I have many interests; walking, mountaineering, history, football, food, drink, travel, writing, and culture in general. I think one can find interest in almost anything; boredom is an affliction of the lazy minded. Oh and I am 64, though like everyone else feel much younger! But I will let others be the judge of that. I am passionate about many things, though not politics, I must admit; and I am an extreme non-smoker. Also a vegetarian, but not so extreme about that.
Oh dear, I hope I am not beginning to sound like a lifestyle fascist; honestly I am not! So I will finish now, and hope I will at least have pricked your curiosity. Hope to hear from you; love Benji x

About his ideal match

A woman, first and foremost; any age really! A great lively fun personality and twinkle in the eye trumps almost everything. I am not perfect, so do not expect perfection in others. Any colour hair or skin; long hair rather than short; but again personality can easily overcome short locks! I would like someone who is open-minded, with lots of interests that we can share. I basically want a best friend and sexy lover rolled into one! Too much to ask?? We shall see!

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About him

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Oxford (Yarnton, Oxfordshire), Oxfordshire, England
Gender:
Male
Age:
66
Star sign:
Libra
Height:
6' 0" (183cm)
Body type:
Athletic
Looks:
Average
Hair colour:
Greying
Eye colour:
Blue
Relationship Status:
Single
Looking for:
Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Something casual
Have children:
No
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Vegetarian
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Several times a week
Education:
University
Occupation:
Self-employed
Income:
Enough
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
None
Religion:
Christian / Other

About his ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Within 60 miles of postcode district OX2 (Oxford)
Gender:
Female
Age range:
45 - 65
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 0" (152cm) - 6' 0" (184cm)
Body type:
Slim; Average; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous
Looks:
Above Average; Average; Attractive
Hair colour:
Any
Eye colour:
Any
Has a photo:
Decidedly important
Relationship Status:
Any
Have children:
Any
Want children:
No
Daily diet:
Vegetarian
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally; Several times a week
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
Any
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

More about him

Personality
Sense of humour:
Irreverent
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party behaviour:
An exhibitionist
Personality traits:
Adventurous; Ambitious; Confident; Daring; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Outgoing; Realistic; Stable; Wild
Valued qualities:
Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness
Fashion sense:
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way)
Favourite clothing:
Shorts & a T-shirt
Favourite colour:
Red
More physical characteristics
Hair style:
Medium; Out of control
Eyesight:
I wear glasses only when reading
Facial hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Body hair:
Light
Disabilities:
I have none
Body art:
Pierced ears
Leisure & entertainment
Date activities:
A movie; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk
Music preferences:
Alternative; Dance / Disco; Punk; Rock; Scottish
Reading:
I read books regularly; I read magazines occasionally
Books:
(Auto)biographies; Crime; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi; Travel
TV habits:
I watch television most days
TV programmes:
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi; Sport
Movie frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Movie preferences:
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Sci-Fi; War
Interests:
Acting; Cooking; Gardening; Painting; Photography; Reading; The arts; Writing books
Performing Arts:
Cabaret; Circus; Comedy; Contemporary theatre; Musical theatre; Site-specific performance
Sport involvement:
An active participant
Sports:
Camping; Cricket; Cycling; Football (Soccer); Hiking; Ice Skating; Inline / Roller skating; Mountain biking; Rock climbing; Running; Skiing; Squash; Tennis; Walking
Food
Cooking:
I love it!
Food:
Doesn't matter
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a month
Dietary Restrictions:
Other
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Go with the flow
Time at work:
I work a standard 40 hour week
Pastimes of choice:
Spending time outdoors
Time online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Family size:
I've got a brother and a sister
Family contact:
I rarely see them
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'd consider it
Likes & dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Pets (Like):
Cat(s); Horse(s)
Pets (Dislike):
Bird(s); Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s)
Turn-ons:
Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking
Turn-offs:
Assertiveness; Power; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s)
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
Find new, more meaningful work
Religious attendance:
Once a month
Dream home:
In the mountains
Politics:
I have no interest in politics
Retirement plans:
Living in the country
Feelings about using LoveArts.com:
Hopeful; Optimistic; Excited
Honesty:
Extremely