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Modified: More than 6 months ago

Online: More than 6 months ago

About her

Country of origin:
United Kingdom
Location:
Wandsworth (Kingston Upon Thames), London, England
Gender:
Female
Age:
37
Star sign:
Aquarius
Height:
5' 6" (168cm)
Body type:
Slim
Looks:
Attractive
Hair colour:
Light Brown
Eye colour:
Hazel
Marital status:
Separated
Looking for:
Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship
Have children:
Yes, living with me sometimes
Want children:
Maybe
Daily diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Occasionally
Education:
Postgraduate
Occupation:
Teaching / Education / Training
Income:
Ask me later
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home language:
English
Other languages:
French
Religion:
Ask me later

About her ideal match

Country of origin:
Anywhere in the World
Location:
Anywhere in the World
Gender:
Male
Age range:
25 - 45
Star sign:
Any
Height:
5' 6" (167cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller
Body type:
Any
Looks:
Any
Hair colour:
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black
Eye colour:
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey; Hazel
Has a photo:
Not important at all
Marital status:
Any
Have children:
Any
Want children:
Any
Daily diet:
Any
Smoking:
Never; Occasionally
Drinking:
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
Ethnicity:
Any
Home language:
English
Other languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In Her Own Words

About her

I am a writer and academic: a creative soul equally at home with art house or Hollywood. I have a PhD but I am often very silly. Passionate about causes and people. Fiercely loyal. I love reading books in the sunshine, wandering the city, countryside or coast, walking possibly in circles just because it feels good, constructing stories around the lives of the people you see around town, lazy Sunday afternoons, dancing (I have just started a ballet class), and perfect silences.

Sometimes I take my shoes off and wander around the office building singing Fleetwood Mac (it has good acoustics).

I live and work in south west London. My job is researching, writing and teaching contemporary fiction. I am hugely passionate about anything that involves words and stories (in any form): art, philosophy, music, film, literature. Chagall, DeLillo, Bronte (ask me which one), Deleuze, Derrida, The Smiths, Lynch, Plath (and Hughes), but the list changes every day...

In the time that is left, I am experimenting with writing fiction: short stories mainly, but I am also (very tentatively) writing a novel which is very influenced by the visual arts and French philosophy. Also occasional song lyrics influenced only by the random thoughts in my head.

I have a three year old little girl, who lives with me most of the time, but spends most weekends with her dad. I have plenty of free time in the week too. Some people I know with children don't mention them on their online profiles, and I understand why: people can wrongly assume this defines who you are. But I think if you have something special in your life you should never be ashamed of it. She is amazing, and deserves her own mention.

I am independent, with amazing friends and a life I love. But it would be great to share that with someone...

About her ideal match

I have a new kitten (I am told she is the cutest thing on earth) so if you are allergic to cats we might be in trouble...

Beyond that, I don't believe a description or a photo can predict chemistry. But if you are an honest, passionate grown-up man who is genuinely interested in exploring the possibility of a relationship I would love to hear from you. If you are also intelligent, creative, confident, sensitive, committed to social justice, interested in the arts, and engaged with what you are doing in life (or one of those things) then even better.

Maybe you are someone who enjoys contradictions (or has their own): I am very traditionally girly and unreconstructed in gender terms, but also strong willed, and I am finding it tricky to find someone who loves both Moomins and continental philosophy...

More about her

Personality traits
Sense of humour:
Irreverent
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The heart
Party behaviour:
A social butterfly
Personality traits:
Adventurous; Independent; Intelligent; Loyal; Optimistic; Philosophical
Valued qualities:
Honesty
More physical characteristics
Eyesight:
I've got 20/20 vision
Fashion sense:
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels)
Disabilities:
I have none
Hair style:
Long
Body art:
I don't have any
Leisure & entertainment
Favourite colour:
Red
Date activities:
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk
Cuisine:
French; German; Greek; Italian
Music preferences:
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Folk; Jazz; R&B / Soul; Rock
Books:
Fiction; Non-fiction
TV programmes:
Comedy/Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas
Movie preferences:
Art Films; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Independent; Mystery
Interests:
Music; Photography; Reading; The arts; Writing books; Writing poetry
Performing Arts:
Ballet; Burlesque; Cabaret; Classical theatre; Contemporary dance; Contemporary theatre; Fringe; Musical theatre; Student productions
More lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Go with the flow
Time at work:
I always put in overtime
Pastimes of choice:
Reading a book
Time online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Cooking:
I really enjoy cooking
Dining out:
I eat out a few times a week
TV habits:
I tend to watch cultural programmes
Movie frequency:
Once or twice a month
Animals:
I like animals
Family size:
I've got a brother
Family contact:
I see them as often as possible
Current relationship:
I'm separated
Willing to Relocate:
I'm flexible
Reading:
I read books regularly
The deep stuff
Work aspirations:
I already have my ideal job
Dream home:
On a beach
Politics:
Socialist
Retirement plans:
Finally writing that novel
Honesty:
Extremely
Feelings about using LoveArts.com:
Optimistic